CFADD Family Protection Guide Identifying and Overcoming Destructive Influences
Presented by Apostle Tommy E. Quick & Family Christian Families Against Destructive Decisions (CFADD)
REBUILDING THE FAMILY, RESTORING THE NATION
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Introduction
"If the foundations be destroyed, what can the righteous do?"
—Psalm 11:3 (KJV)
Welcome to the CFADD Family Protection Guide. In today's rapidly changing world, Christian families face unprecedented challenges to their values, faith, and unity. This guide is designed to help you identify harmful influences that can damage your family's foundation and provide practical, biblically-based strategies to protect and strengthen your home.
Our mission at Christian Families Against Destructive Decisions is to influence the building and sustaining of strong families and strong generational heritages by promoting a biblical worldview and a God-First lifestyle. When homes are healed, churches ourish and communities thrive.
This guide will walk you through:
  • Recognizing destructive influences that target families
  • Developing biblical discernment to make God-honoring decisions
  • Implementing practical tools and strategies for family protection
  • Establishing ongoing support and accountability systems
Part 1: Recognizing Destructive Inuences
Romans 12:2 (KJV): "And be not conformed to this world: but be ye transformed by the renewing of your mind..."
Before we can protect our families, we must rst identify the threats. The enemy rarely storms the gates—he sneaks in through screens, conversations, and compromises. Here are some common destructive inuences families face today:
Part 2: Biblical Discernment Training
Hebrews 5:14 (AMPC):
"But solid food is for full-grown men, for those whose senses and mental faculties are trained by practice to discriminate..."
How to Train Your Family in Discernment
Discernment Workshops
CFADD offers specialized training sessions for families, youth groups, and churches on developing biblical discernment in today's culture.
Visit cfadd.org for upcoming dates and online options
Part 3: Practical Tools and Strategies
Knowledge and discernment must be put into practice through concrete tools and strategies. CFADD provides several resources to help your family establish protection systems:
Emergency Response Strategy: PAUSE → PRAY → PROTECT → PURSUE
PAUSE
Stop immediately. Don't react impulsively. Take a moment to consider your next steps.
PRAY
Ask God for wisdom, strength, and direction. Invite His presence into the situation.
PROTECT
Take immediate action to protect yourself and others from harm or further exposure.
PURSUE
Seek support from trusted mentors, parents, or pastors. Don't face challenges alone.
Create emergency response cards for each family member with these steps and key contact information.
Part 4: Ongoing Support and Accountability
Proverbs 27:17 (KJV): "Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend."
Protecting your family isn't a one-time effort but an ongoing commitment. CFADD provides continuous support through several channels:
Expert-Led Webinars
Join monthly online training sessions with experts in family ministry, cultural discernment, and biblical application.
Upcoming topics include:
Navigating Social Media as a Christian Family
Talking with Children About Sensitive Cultural Issues
Building Marriage on Biblical Foundations
Practical Discipleship for Parents
Financial Stewardship for Christian Families
Raising Children with Biblical Gender Identity
Conclusion & Call to Action
The challenges facing Christian families today are signicant, but not insurmountable. By identifying destructive influences, developing biblical discernment, implementing practical strategies, and connecting with supportive community, your family can thrive even in difcult times.
Remember that this journey isn't about fear or isolation, but about wisdom and faithful stewardship of your family. As you apply these principles, you'll be building a legacy of faith that can impact generations to come.
Your Next Steps
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Schedule a family check-in this week to discuss potential destructive inuences
2
Download the CFADD Shield App for ongoing resources and support
3
Draft or review your Family Media Covenant together
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Register for an upcoming CFADD workshop or webinar
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Join the CFADD Universe Community for ongoing support
Contact Information
About CFADD
"At CFADD, we equip families to discern, resist, and overcome destructive inuences by applying practical, biblically grounded wisdom."
"The enemy rarely storms the gates—he sneaks in through screens, conversations, and compromises."
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How to Spot a Destructive Inuence
What does this teach about God, family, and morality?
⚖ Does it inspire faith, love, and purity—or confusion, fear, and rebellion?
⛪ Would you feel comfortable with Jesus sitting beside you as you watch/read/engage?
♥ How does it affect your heart and your relationship with God and family?
"Discernment is not suspicion, but Spirit-led wisdom that recognizes good and evil as God denes them."
Daily Family Devotions
Set aside time daily to read Scripture, pray, and discuss God's truths together.
Action Tip: Use a devotional guide or CFADD's online resources; end with each person sharing how to apply the day's scripture.
Role-Playing Scenarios
Practice responding to real-world situations before they happen.
  • Sample Scenarios: "Your friend wants you to lie for them. What do you say?"
  • "You see something questionable online. What's your next step?"
Scripture Memory
Equip your family with God's Word to combat lies.
Suggested verses: Psalm 119:9-11, Philippians 4:8, 1 Corinthians 10:13
Open Communication
Create a safe environment where questions and struggles can be shared without judgment.
Sample conversation starter: "What's the hardest thing about following Jesus at your school/job?"
CFADD Shield App
Our mobile application provides instant access to:
  • Biblical responses to cultural challenges
  • Prayer request submission
  • Emergency support resources
  • Daily family devotions
Scan the QR code at cfadd.org to download the app
Family Media Covenant
Sample Covenant Excerpt:

As a family committed to honoring God in all we do, we agree to:
  • Keep devices in public spaces, not bedrooms
  • Use filtering/monitoring software on all devices
  • Have regular tech-free family times each week
  • Talk openly about online content and experiences
  • Seek help immediately if exposed to harmful content
Family signatures: \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_ Review date: \_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_\_
Download a full customizable covenant template at cfadd.org
"Setting boundaries isn't legalism—it's love with foresight."
CFADD Universe Community
Connect with like-minded families for support, encouragement, and resources.
Benets:
Online forums for specific family challenges
Resource library with articles and videos
Prayer support network
Regional in-person gathering information
Join at community.cfadd.org
Monthly Accountability Meetings
Structured gatherings for families to share challenges, victories, and strategies.
Sample Agenda:
1
Opening prayer (10 min)
2
Praise reports and testimonies (15 min)
3
Challenge discussion (30 min)
4
Resource sharing (15 min)
5
Prayer and next steps (20 min)
CFADD can help you start or nd a group in your area
Parent/Mentor Partnerships
CFADD connects newer families with experienced mentor families who can provide guidance, support, and practical wisdom.
Would you like a mentor family? Or would you like to become a mentor family? Sign up at cfadd.org/mentorship
"Your family can be a fortress, not a casualty, in today's culture. God has equipped you for victory—stand rm and lead your household well!"
Christian Families Against Destructive Decisions (CFADD) is a non-profit organization founded in 2020 by Apostle Tommy E. Quick. Our mission is to influence the building and sustaining of strong families and strong generational heritages by promoting a biblical worldview and God First lifestyle.
Address: 150 Kensington Dr, Spartanburg, SC 29306
Phone: (855) 752-3233
Website: www.cfadd.org
Email: info@cfadd.org
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